2. Find YOUR Hobby It's no mystery that humans need space. Space to think. Space to feel. Space to breathe. It's definitely a lot more difficult to find that space when you have a full schedule, and your kids chaotically fill every gap that used to exist in that schedule. Our solution for 2014 is find YOUR hobby. I mean a real hobby. Your real hobby. Separate from work. Separate from the necessities of life. Allow yourself to find something you enjoy doing, and just do it. Whether it's an instrument, fishing, running, writing, reading, it doesn't matter. Find something that allows you to not have to think too hard. That's difficult enough as it is.